Friday, October 11, 2024

National Coming Out Day

 

Today is National Coming Out Day
By Dreaming Ace

Today is National Coming Out Day
A day to check our spaces/communities
Making sure they are warm and welcoming
For all our LGBTQA+ siblings and friends
Some of us have been out for decades
Some of us have been out for moments
Some of us are still exploring the multiverses
The multiverse of gender, of sexuality, of identity
Our spaces and communities should be safe
Should be warm and welcoming no matter
Where on the journey, where on the path
Any person falls on their LGBTQA+ adventure
Today is National Coming Out Day
A day to check our spaces/communities
Making sure they are warm and welcoming
For all our LGBTQA+ siblings and friends

Thursday, October 10, 2024

World Mental Health Day

 

World Mental Health Day is an international day for global mental health 
Education, awareness, and advocacy against social stigma. 

I have written blog posts filled with facts and figures, 
Filled with YouTube videos of celebrities talking about mental health, 
Ones exploring mental health and its intersections with characters and fandoms. 

This time I have ended up simply writing a poem to mark the day 
because that is all the "spoons" I have today.

May we all have a meaningful World Mental Health Day

World Mental Health Day
By Dreaming Ace

Today is World Mental Health Day
A Day to examine our own mental health
And that of our friends, family, communities
Some of us can say we are thriving today
Many more of us would say we are struggling,
We have been struggling, we will continue to struggle
Mental health is not simple, nor easy, nor always clear
What tricks work one day might do harm the next
Sometimes fresh air and rest and nutritious food
Are all that is needed, other times those are impossible
Impossible tasks that only bring more grief and pain
Some of us can mediate or journal or talk to a therapist
Others need to dance or run or create their feelings out
Some need to process and understand their Trauma
Others need to find safety and security and belonging first
Some have the supports and resources to heal
Others have to heal on their own since systems are broken
Personally I often daydream
Personally I often lean on fandoms
Personally I often borrow wisdom / mantra of others
“Gentle, gentle, slow, slow, thoughtful, thoughtful, flow, flow”*
As my north star when the path is covered in shadows
“Gentle, gentle, slow, slow, thoughtful, thoughtful, flow, flow”*
But that does not mean I never feel stuck
But that does not mean I never feel lost
But that does not mean I never feel alone
So if you feel stuck you are not alone in feeling stuck
So if you feel lost you are not alone in feeling lost
So if you feel alone, you are not alone in feeling alone
If you are feeling tired That Is OK
If you are feeling energized That Is OK
If you are feeling somehow That Is OK
Today is World Mental Health Day
A Day to examine our own mental health
And that of our friends, family, communities
A day to honor however we are really doing
A day to honor however we are really feeling
A day to honor our and our communities mental health
Today is World Mental Health Day

*From old Instagram posts by Wentworth Miller



Wednesday, October 2, 2024

Happy October


October Has Arrived
By Dreaming Ace

October has arrived
Bringing a month of magic
Natural magic: Changing Leaves
Wellness magic: Teas and Soups
Joyous magic: Stories and Tales
A time when the line between
Past and Present and Future
Natural and Supernatural
What is, What could be
Is Thinner, Is Liminal
October has arrived
Bringing a month of magic

I love celebrating the magic month of October.

For me, it doesn't matter if it is the magic of watching and feeling the weather change, the magic of a nice warm cup of tea or hot cocoa, the magic of a yummy cooking project using up what I have, or the magic that only good stories in all their forms can bring. I enjoy celebrating magic in all its forms, shapes, and squiggles. 

I am planning on doing one magic/supernatural/Halloween activity all 31 days of October. I read supernatural stories; I go to apple festivals, fall festivals, and Halloween festivals; I go to a wonderful series of Terror Tuesday Talks at the library on the history of horror films. 

For example yesterday I read a few stories from We Mostly Come Out at Night: 15 Queer Tales of Monsters, Angels & Other Creatures which seems a fitting choice to start with as a magic / supernatural / Halloween activity and a LGBTQ History Month activity. I am looking forward to all the ways I can incorporate magic into my October.


(Photo by Dreaming Ace)